SIMPLICITY IS BETTER THAN SHOW

1. Which is better? to be simple or making a show?
2. I think simplicity shows the real sincerity behind any action.
3. Show will last for one day only.
4. Sincere affectionate actions will go a long way.
5. If you want to invite people for a party,prepare two or three delicious dishes and keep the conversation lively and give company and have a nice time.
6. It will be remembered for a long time.
7. Making a show,offering a buffet in a grand hotel,spending lots of money with more energy will not last for a long time.
8. So many dishes. served by so many waiters with no feelings or affection how does it matter?
9. Everyone ,as if they are visiting a hotel will have their fill and walk off sometimes saying bye bye or sometimes without saying bye -bye for they have to attend some important work or for visiting another function on the same day.
10. If it is a marriage function,they may attend the reception and not show for the real wedding function.
11. It is very difficult to arrange everything in advance,  so we may miss many of them to do reciprocal thanking function and giving them their due gift  at the right time.
12. Rarely  in India people know and respond to the RSVP .
13. This is not a common practice in India.
14. It is very difficult for the host to do justice .
15. Printing of the invitation cards in a bombastic way and manner spending  lot of money  is also not a welcome gesture for all of us are not that very very rich like the few.
16. This card will be going to the trash bin the next day.
17. Nobody preserves this card and to wish on the said anniversary days.
18.  This is also very rare.
19. The money thus spent can be useful for the orphans and needing children who are not lucky to get support in their lives.
20. This is my personal opinion and please take it in the spirit in which it is written.
21. This in no way means to criticize and complain those who can afford to spend their money as they wish.
22. It is their life. It is their money. They can do what they wish or like.This is the thought for the day.
23. To all with blessings and best wishes.